e·nough [ih-nuhf]
–adjective
1.
adequate for the want or need; sufficient for the purpose or to satisfy desire: enough water; noise enough to wake the dead.
sur·feit [sur-fit]
–noun
1. excess; an excessive amount: a surfeit of speechmaking.
2. excess or overindulgence in eating or drinking.
3. an uncomfortably full or crapulous feeling due to excessive eating or drinking.
One ubiquitous TV commercial here asks a question that we all can relate to, "Why say 'OR' when you can say 'AND'?" It is an ad for a big, brawny buffet, instantly bringing to mind a target demographic that never has had much of a problem saying "AND," as it's loading its far-too-small plate with all manner of gooey damage. But I digress. As they digest.
Americans have always been rather obsessive-compulsive around matters concerning freedom of choice, which is one reason why our floor-to-ceiling supermarkets look a bit...well...fuller...than those of our Russian counterparts. Why we somehow need to have 1,000 different cereal options in each grocery store. Why it can turn into a seriously bad day when we hit the gelato stand and they offer just 65 varieties. I mean, come ON! This is, like, gelato stands in, like, a Siberian winter.
The Internet has brought all this choice to our fingertips. Options seem infinite, and another choice can always be teased out with a few more clicks.
With the result...if you're anything like me...of not utter joy, but...paralysis. I hear about a book. I go on Amazon to check it out. I read the review. Then just beneath it comes the parade of its cousins...the "Customers who bought this item also bought" list. Surely, you cheap bastard, you're not going to waste Amazon's time with a mere one-book purchase! OTHER customers--in fact, ALL the other customers we've had today--have shoveled at least 10 items into their shopping carts. And when the thought of having to decide between titles troubled them for a second or 2, they remembered that they live in The Land of And, and tossed every last one of them onto their platinum card.
Unfortunately my platinum card is living in the land of NOT. It landed there after I lived in The Land of And a little too long. And thus, I must make a choice. Which I cannot, in good conscience, make.
I pacify my kicking, screaming, book-wanting child by adding all the cousins to my wish list, which currently contains 360 items. It is the Las Vegas buffet of wish lists. And I am the bad martinet of a Weight Watchers' mother suggesting that choice is an appropriate...choice.
Someday I'm gonna win the lottery, and by God, I am going to buy every last book, CD, DVD, and audio download on that list. I'll show them what AND means! Amazon is going to send me a plaque for the biggest order ever entered on their system. I will rule and OWN Amazon! When they see my name, they'll shiver. They'll even name a tab on their drop-down menu for me.
You see, while having a choice is powerful, not having to choose is ostensibly even more empowering...or at least, broadly appealing. And after living with all this Internet-fueled choice, I think a lot of us have broken pickers. Compromised. Severely ill. On the critical list. In this Web-created delusion of surfeit, we get overwhelmed by so many possibilities, so much potential. If that doesn't work out, try these 20 things. If those 20 things don't work out, try these 40. OK, I'm KO'ed. No. More. Options.
My mom once proved this theory with one of our most neurotic cats, Princess, whom she'd classically conditioned to be a royal basket case. Princess would walk into the kitchen, sniff the food, and turn up her nose at it, in classic cat style. My mother, a textbook kitty codependent if there ever was one, would then grab the can opener and pop open another can.
Princess of course would give it a quick sniff and turn up her pert, pink nose at it. This continued until my mother had exhausted most of the cans in the cupboard, a parade of dishes lined our kitchen linoleum, and a multifarious fishy smell informed the immediate neighborhood of her dark deeds. Had Princess taken the bait on any one of them? No, she had not. Was The Land of And being very, very good to her? Yes, it very much was.
Princess was overstimulated. (And a bit of a bitch.)
I am overstimulated. (Ditto.)
What we're looking at is a tapeworm. Our society has this long, ravenous, nutrition-sucking parasite slinking around its collective digestive tract, encouraging our natural human tendency toward, to use a very old-school but perhaps not inappropriate word, gluttony. Because we're not getting what we really want, we tend to fill up on cheap substitutes that may trick us into thinking we're full. Yet, like the hungry ghosts of Buddhist lore, we remain insatiable. We do not grasp the concept of enough, and then our not-enoughness eats us alive.
If I had to choose--which I hope I don't--I'd prefer the buffet.
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19 June 2011
27 January 2011
A Prescient Quote from "Although of Course You End Up Becoming Yourself: A Road Trip with David Foster Wallace"
David Foster Wallace, discussing his book Infinite Jest and the addictive qualities of TV and the Internet:"The technology's gonna get better and better at doing what it does, which is seduce us into being incredibly dependent on it, so that advertisers can be more confident that we will watch their advertisements. And as a technology system, it's amoral.
It doesn't...have a responsibility to care about us one whit more than it does: It's got a job to do. The moral job is ours. You know, Why am I watching five hours a day of this? I mean, why am I getting 75 percent of my calories from candy? I mean, that's something that a little tiny child would do, and that would be all right. But we're postpubescent, right? Somewhere along the line, we're supposed to have grown up...
I think one of the reasons that I feel empty after watching a lot of TV, and one of the things that makes TV seductive, is that it gives the illusion of relationships with people. It's a way to have people in the room talking and being entertaining, but it doesn't require anything of me. I mean, I can see them, they can't see me. And they're there for me, and I can receive from the TV, I can receive entertainment and stimulation. Without having to give anything back but the most tangential kind of attention. And that is very seductive.

The problem is it's also very empty. Because one of the differences about having a real person there is that number one, I've gotta do some work. Like, he pays attention to me, I gotta pay attention to him. You know, I watch him, he watches me. The stress level goes up.
...as the Internet grows, and as our ability to be linked up...at a certain point, we're gonna have to build some machinery inside our guts, to help us deal with this. Because the technology is just gonna get better and better and better. And it's gonna get easier and easier, and more convenient, and more and more pleasurable to be alone with images on a screeen, given to us by people who do not love us but want our money. Which is all right. In low doses, right? But if that's the basic main staple of your diet, you're gonna die. In a meaningful way, you're gonna die."
It's difficult not to agree with DFW. While distraction in measured doses can be a beautiful thing, the cumulative presence of TV, Internet, gaming, cell phones, texting, IMing, smart phones, social media, and sundry other technologies has undeniably altered the ways in which we relate to other humans. I have lately acutely observed the flattened, sometimes surreal quality of relating online versus the depth of experience one feels in 3-D (aka “real” life).
Online communication adds a layer of abstraction that seems to confound my brain. There is the person to whom one is speaking, then there becomes this avatar, the recipient of the email, who, while resembling this person, is solely a cognitive/verbal entity. The physical field is completely wiped out, and the emotional field clouded. Online relating brings with it much space for interpretation, in a way that face-to-face encounters often do not. In person, we read people’s energy more quickly than we do their words, and in fact process what they say via how they look and how they say it. Actual verbal content has been proven to be just a small component in the communication process. How things are said—vocal intonation, gesture, pitch, volume, phrasing—holds much more sway. All of this is absent in virtual communication.
Email and the Internet have also impacted the length of our relationships to others. Virtual communication makes it very easy to jump ship—to move on to the next person, the next topic, to blow people off, to not spend a lot of time working through issues. There are simply too many other options, and we lose patience quickly. Like a baby averts its eyes from anything that disturbs it, we can easily perform a few mouse clicks and the offensive entity has been excised. And if I can’t see you, see the upset you may feel when I dismiss you, then it doesn’t exist, right?
So if we in our world allow ourselves to be passively entertained, and accept a dehumanizing medium as our predominant form of communication, over time, what is the end result? While Foster Wallace’s conclusion feels somewhat extreme at this moment in time, it's certainly not inconceivable.
“ …each generation has different things that force the generation to grow up. Maybe for our grandparents it was World War Two. For us, it’s gonna be that at…a certain point…we’re either gonna have to put away childish things and discipline ourself about how much time do I spend being passively entertained? And how much time do I spend doing stuff that actually isn’t all that much fun minute by minute, but that builds certain muscles in me as a grown-up and a human being? And if we don’t do that then (a) as individuals, we’re gonna die, and (b) the culture’s gonna grind to a halt. Because we’re gonna get so interested in entertainment that we’re not gonna want to do the work that generates the income that buys the products that pays for the advertising that disseminates the entertainment. It just seems to be like it’s gonna be this very cool thing. Where the country could very well shut down and die, and it won’t be anybody else doin’ it to us, we will have done it to ourselves.”

I highly recommend all of David Lipsky's fascinating book, which documents a 5-day road trip taken by the Rolling Stone correspondent and David Foster Wallace in 1996. It's both a compelling conversation and a glimpse into the writer's thought processes, interspersed with plenty of humor, humanity and bits of profundity. We're fortunate to have this transcript as a glimpse into Wallace's amazing mind.
07 November 2009
Putting the Paper to Bed
Yesterday I read Richard Rodriguez's article about the “twilight of the American newspaper” in Harper’s. As a journalist (or is the correct term "content provider formerly known as journalist"?), it sent stabbing pain into my gut—and echoed many of my own worries, fears, and sentiments. How could such a lovely term as "twilight" be employed to euphemize--or is it euthanize?--an event once believed impossible: the loss of the Fourth Estate?Today, less than 13% of our American populace reads the newspaper.
Those under 30 believe that newspapers are sold as wrapping material for shotglasses on moving day. Yesterday a college-aged grocery store clerk attempted to charge me for both the newspaper and the weekend arts supplement because she had no idea that the latter was actually part of the daily paper. (And was quick to inform me that I must be mistaken!) When San Francisco mayor Gavin Newsom was interviewed about the possibility that his city could soon be newspaperless, he shrugged, "People under 30 won't even notice." Since 1990, one-quarter of all newspaper jobs have disappeared. That would include mine. And those of all my new competitors for bartending jobs. A Website called www.newspaperdeathwatch.com documents the chilling proceedings, as a new clod of dirt gets shoveled over the coffin every day. Someone, please, send flowers!Ah, Harper’s! Venerably founded in 1850. The second-oldest continuously published monthly magazine in the US. A paragon of great reporting by distinguished writers covering in depth some of the most important ideas of the times. But, as with so many journalistic enterprises of the 19th century, we now must ask, Will you still be cranking out prose at the turn of the decade?
Article author Richard Rodriguez is, like myself, a proponent of geographical identity. In his article, he points to local papers as the original assemblers and disseminators of regional identity. Sort of like rainbarrel, catching the drips of our collective psyches.
Birth announcements, obituaries, local weather, classifieds, cultural doings, letters to the editor, events listings, editorials, business ads, Little League stats—the sum of our communities’ days that, when taken as a gestalt, can provide a good reading of the local temperature. And in plusher times, when cities were known to have 2 or even 3 daily papers, one could take the pulse of an entire substratum of the city—-their target audiences offering a wide-ranging sense of perspective. As Billy Joel once sang, “I need a little give and take: The New York Times and The Daily News.” And truly, a reader of NY's 3 papers would gain a diverse and somewhat balanced sense of who her neighbors were and what they were up to.But we do not inhabit our geography in the same way we used to. While once we could be counted on to dwell pretty specifically where our car was garaged at night, we have now become citizens of cyberspace. A place without a country. A place without a place. Content streams at us from every corner of the globe. Those of us wanting to extend the "New York state of mind" can tune in to WFMU and hear jazz and traffic reports for the Holland Tunnel. Others missing the sound of their native Portuguese can access more than 3,000 Portuguese radio stations with a few clicks. And is this a bad thing? I guess it depends on who you ask.
As Rodriguez puts it, “Our inclination has lead us to invent a digital cosmopolitanism that begins and ends with ‘I.’ Careening down Geary Boulevard on the 38 bus, I can talk to my dear Auntie in Delhi or I can view snapshots of my cousin’s Wedding in Recife or I can listen to girl punk from Glasgow. The cost of my cyber-urban experience is disconnection from body, from presence, from city.”It is difficult for me to let go of urban and cultural identities. Our world is richer for them. Without them, we get the Taco Bell-and-Motel-6 effect, where every city starts to look exactly like every other city, and you’d never know you were in Horse Shoe, North Carolina. And yet...the upside of the global village is that, when boundaries begin to melt, things like territorialism and blind patriotism and nationalism have nothing to land on. And thus, what may be next—no more wars? John Lennon’s “Imagine”? All this fence-trampling could be a good thing.
Like the Internet, a newspaper provides a window into the greater world. And prior to the Internet, it served as the most powerful vehicle for many in learning just what was going on, gaining perspective, sometimes offering immigrants a fast-track to assimilation into a new country and culture. But the difference between newspaper and Internet is that, when we sit down and read a newspaper, we are exposed to articles and arguments we might not otherwise seek out. Sure, one can do this by surfing the Web, but the experience is generated more by the user, rather than an editor. So while it may be ultimately more tailored to our interests, it can also become a somewhat closed loop if we read only within a tiny spectrum. A Celtic harpist might be able to find the most arcane facts about his art form and harp on that theme...but might not have the slightest idea about current events, other arts, who won the World Series, or that his favorite author had died that morning.But perhaps these are unnecessary facts. Perhaps even my dream of some semblance of “cultural literacy” is sadly Old Paradigm, and I should just fuhgeddaboudit.
But with the death of the newspaper dies a certain dream of a common language. If we all evolve into little splinters, each with our own areas of microspecialization, what do we talk about on the grocery line? Does this me-first society really need a vehicle to accentuate the differences among us? Or more a unifying thread?
The other, much descried issue at issue here is the democritization of both culture and arts criticism. As Rodriguez opines about newspaper loss, “We will not read about newlyweds. We will not read about the death of salesmen. We will not read about prize Holsteins or new novels. We are a nation dismantling the structures of intellectual property and all critical apparatus. We are without professional book reviewers and art critics and essays about what it might mean that our local newspaper has died. We are a nation of Amazon reader responses (Moby Dick is “not a really good piece of fiction”—Feb. 14, 2009, by Donald J. Bingle, Saint Charles, Ill.—two stars out of five.)”
Sure, anyone can express an opinion, and Rodriguez’s egregious example aside, I have read plenty of cogent, well-described, thorough, impassioned, and nicely worded reviews on Amazon. Not every member of the hoi-polloi is an imbecile. But Rodriguez’s gripe is a point well taken: critics have the education and discernment that comes after working for years in an art form, so that they can offer a generally more-informed view. Sometimes. Definitely not always. When I was a music critic, I spent much of the day, every day, listening to music, had studied music and music theory, and did many hours of in-depth research prior to writing articles. Thus, I was offering a much different perspective than a fan of John Mayer’s who “reviews” his album on Amazon because he loves his music and thinks Mayer can do no wrong. That’s not a critical review, that’s a plug.But the democritization of media is a mammoth topic about which I could author a lengthy book.
And with it come probably as many pros as cons. But this and economics are two of the key reasons that journalists have become obviated. Now all of us, with our digital cams, videocams, cell phone cams, blogs, etc., have the potential to write, photograph, film, and distribute our own work. Gone are the gatekeepers. Everyone is an artist! Everyone who can talk can talk on paper! We are all creative beings! It’s all good!Is it?
Well, no. A lot of it is merde.
As much I believe that people have the right to creative expression, not everyone is equally gifted or has equal training or skill. One of the problems with democritization is that we lose the ability to distinguish quality that has taken a lifetime to be able to produce. In short, we reduce our standards and settle for less. The playing field is way too level.
Another function that journalism has traditionally served is that, by upholding editorial standards and employing knowledgeable writers, they slogged through the crap so that the reader didn't have to. However, in the Age of DIY, someone else’s opinion seems to matter less. We’d rather wade through and surf the waves and audodidact ourselves to pieces rather than have some old journalist tell us that a piece of literature was actually more thoughtful and engaging than a YouTube video or a Facebook thread.
As Americans, we all know so much. No one knows more than us. About everything.
At least American hubris will survive the recession.
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